Ways to use a condom without getting STD.

Condoms are one of the best forms of birth control and protection against sexually transmitted diseases out there, but they only work if they don’t break.
These are reasons why your condoms might tear or weaken. Keep in mind these condom fails the next time you get busy.

You use the wrong lubricant: Using oil based lubricants such as cold cream, baby oil, petroleum jelly or even hand lotion can weaken the condom and break it.

You do not use a lubricant: If there is friction while having sex, not only will it cause irritation and pain to your private parts but the condom will also break. So make sure to keep your private parts lubricated while having sex.

You store the condom in warm places: Make sure that you do not store your condom in a warm place like your wallet as heat damages latex condoms. Keep them in your medicine cabinet instead.

The condom does not fit: If you use a condom that is too small or too large, it can rip so make sure that you try different condom sizes and pick the right one which is not too tight or too loose.

The condom has passed its expiry date: If you use a condom which is past its prime, it will be ineffective in protecting you from sexually transmitted disease or unwanted pregnancy.
Condom wrappers come with an expiry date so ensure that you take note of them.

Your woman has tight vaginal muscles: Some women have tight vaginal muscles which can also cause the condom to break. So make sure that you always use a lubricant.

What you should think about before you have sex with someone new.

What You Should Think
Now you finally know…

How long to wait before sex is a hotly debated topic that probably isn’t going away. But even still … how long are you “supposed” to wait? Maybe you went out with someone and your chemistry is UNDENIABLE. You instantly feel that attraction and your sexual energy between the two of you is DYNAMITE. What are you supposed to do? End the date? Go where your body WANTS you to go?

Your brain is wrestling with your tingling body and you SERIOUSLY want to just go for it.
It’s the age old struggle — if you jump into bed right away you run the risk of screwing up something that could have real long-term potential. The sex might be fantastic, but what if he ghosts you afterward and leaves you in a puddle of insecurity? What if she gets the wrong impression and pegs you as just another player?
You may find yourself wondering — if you wait and build an emotional connection before you have sex, could it mean a better opportunity for something lasting?
On the other hand, if you do have sex, you might wake up the next day and find that the two of you are blissfully bonded and completely at ease with each other. One night leads to a weekend together and then the two of you become inseparable. It happens!
Is there a magic formula for the timing of that first sexual encounter?

How long is long enough? Do you have a hard and fast third date rule? What factors need to be present in your relationship to make you feel secure about sharing your body with someone?